Modern-day parenting appears to have very little in common with what it was like, say, 20-30 years ago. One of the particular features of contemporary upbringing is providing children with maximum freedom and setting minimum restrictions. The idea behind this concept is to raise independent, unrestrained personality. But the other side of the story is that children start to behave wildly and do wrong things when there’s a lack of control – and they are not afraid of any consequences. Moreover, it’s a typical picture today when parents have a go at people who dare to correct or reprove their children rather than discipline their kids for acting out or wrongdoing. Eventually, there is a significant risk that without enough control a kid will become spoiled and grow up as a rather rude and selfish person. And parents will have no one to blame except themselves.
Thus, it’s parents’ direct responsibility to find a balance between being strict and being too lenient. Parental control apps can be of a great help providing parents with the information they need to praise and award or to condemn and punish their precious children. No one says you should follow them 24/7 and control their every move. But remotely filtering content they view, monitoring kids’ mobile devices, social media, calls and above all text messages can be a good solution to make sure that there are limits and consequences for unacceptable behavior.
Besides helping raise a responsible young people, monitoring their text messages enables parents to protect them even when kids themselves don’t know that they’re in danger. Pumpic parental control app lets you control contacts, block misgiving senders as well as prevent children from drug abuse, bullies, and online predators.
Another aspect of teen texting is that, when regularly practiced at bedtime, it may be hazardous to kid’s health. According to the study by Xue Ming, a professor of neuroscience and neurology at Rutgers New Jersey Medical School, late night texting affects the quality and amount of sleep resulting in negative impact on their level of alertness during the day.
Teens are virtuosic texters. Parents know that their children will respond really fast when you text them. They simplify words, use acronyms and symbols to text more rapidly than almost any grown-up can. That is why most of kids’ and teens’ SMS are hard to interpret at the first sight. However, this tactic can be and is often used to hide the actual meaning from whoever may see their conversation.
Hence, you should learn at least basic slang words, terms, and acronyms to stay aware of what your kids are up to and prevent them from getting into trouble when it’s necessary. Here are several common codes every parent must familiarize himself with:
This is just a tiny part of teen specific texting language. You can educate yourself more by visiting Glossary of Internet Terms in our Learning Center. With this knowledge and Pumpic cell phone tracker, text messages your kid sends and receives will be completely visible and understandable to you.
Another thing regarding texting you might want to consider is a social impact has on teenagers. For example, a kid may get angry at friends who don’t respond immediately and continuously to messages, not taking into consideration that the addressee may be asleep or driving. Also, researchers warn that round-the-clock contact with friends and receiving multiple opinions on any topic may affect teens' decision-making skills since they may undermine teens’ self-confidence and ability to think things through on their own. Consider these points and talk to your kids about setting limits on texting.
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